Sightseeing by Rattawut Lapcharoensap
Another selection from my book club which I enjoyed but would not have read on my own. This collection of short stories is slightly depressing but not horrific. Intense and immersive, I had to pause and reflect on each story as I read. Allan Gurganus' blurb described the collection best: "a deadpan heartfelt voice, true comic scope, a whole new use for rage." My thoughts on each story:
"Farangs": The mother's description of tourists made me laugh and made me wonder what I'd like to see. This also probably the most-often quoted passage of the book: "Pussy and elephants. That's all these people want..[even though y]ou give them history, temples, pagodas, traditional dance, floating markets, seafood curry, tapioca desserts, silk-weaving cooperatives.” I also liked the pet pig named Clint Eastwood.
"At the Cafe Lovely": This has one of my favorite passages about how children become adults when they acknowledge other people’s grief; poignant. The episode with McDonald's reminds me of how it's a symbol of luxury in many countries. Our book discussion brought up the issue about whether drug use is implicitly immoral or culturally immoral. Do our cultural beliefs affect how we view the older brother?
"Draft Day": My favorite story in this collection. I was struck by how loving the poor son's mother is and how she feeds the rich son even though they're the poor family. Great story about inequality. I was surprised that some did not think this happens in the US. Throughout history, wars are always built on the blood of poor people. Rich people become generals or are not involved at all. I did not know that Thailand had a military draft before I read this story.
"Sightseeing": The first story in which the people aren't poor. My assumption is based on the description of the mother wearing suits to her meetings. I thought this eponymous story was ok. My book club thought it was very poetic, a factor that is always lost on me.
"Priscilla the Cambodian": Racism is the same everywhere, no matter who the hater or the hated are. It made me think of Mexicans immigrants in the US.
"Don't Let Me Die in this Place": The only story told from an American and an older person’s point of view. I liked the change in perspective from the other stories. Another fact I learned: the use of "mongrel" for the mixed race kids (also seen in the first tale). Apparently, I grew up more sheltered than I thought.
"Cockfighter": This can be a very depressing novella. I was able to read this story because I knew its summary: a "valiant but foolhardy battle." The first story of Little Jui reveals his character so well that it’s scary; the image seared into my mind. I liked that although valiant, the father’s motives are not clear either. Does he do it for what happened in the past or to stand up to Little Jui now? I found the ending to be more happy than sad. Don't think too hard because I found it ambiguous on further analysis.
For those who like the extra DVD commentaries, here is a good
interview with the author.
Ten Letters: The Stories Americans Tell Their President by Eli Saslow
I picked this one randomly, liked the writing, and checked it out of the library. The introduction is informative. I never thought about how presidents are very out of touch with people due to security reasons. The letters make me very grateful to have a job and no kids. The author is a journalist, so each chapter is a profile of the letter writer and its relation to Obama’s presidency and policies. This book shows Obama in a positive light and focuses on his accomplishments. So, probably not the book to read if you’re a birther. Read it for a glimpse into the average American’s life and the presidential office.
Unbearable Lightness: A Story of Gain and Loss by Portia de Rossi
I scanned rather than read this book and mainly the ending. The book summary states "From her lowest point, Portia began the painful climb back to a life of health and honesty, falling in love and marrying Ellen DeGeneres and emerging as an outspoken and articulate advocate for gay rights and women’s health issues." I was mostly curious about how Ellen affect her recovery and Ellen doesn't play a large part until the very end. I dislike book summaries that summarize the ending so you read the book expecting one story arc but reading another.
I liked her thoughts near the end. Being sickly thin was her unconscious way of compelling people to accept other aspects of her. She also realized that despite being a feminist, she was starving herself to follow society’s dictates, and during recovery, her excessive weight gain was the opposite but same reaction. The book made me think about my relation with food and how hard it is to find a person with a truly healthy relationship with food. Part of her journey to recovery involved living with someone who had a normal relationship with food. Don't read this book if it will be a trigger for you. Maybe read the last chapter(s) to draw inspiration.
The Hum and the Shiver by Alex Bledsoe
(Read this!)
I loved this book. I stayed up very late to read it in a night. The title caught my eye at the library. I was going to put the book back on the shelf but the first page drew me in. You don't know what the Tufa are and by the time you do, you accept it. The book is funny with memorable characters. Some characters are despicable, some are sweet, some are despicable but pitiable. I love how you see a different side of the mother near the end. I love the idea that music holds magic. I loved everything about this book. The plot of how loose women can hold a lot of magic reminds me of another book,
Trash Sex Magic. Keep in mind, I read that a long time ago. Read this book if you’re into magic, mysterious people, and strong female characters.
Would you ride an elephant if you went to Thailand? What else would you do?